fit=110,110" data-large-file="https://i2com/mummywhispererblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/Question-Corner.jpg? fit=110,110" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1870" title="Question Corner" src="https://i2com/mummywhispererblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/Question-Corner.jpg?resize=110,110" alt="" width="110" height="110" data-recalc-dims="1" / This question was logged by one of my male readers (I know I’m the ‘mummy whisperer’, but as I’ve been talking about Sex a lot, I’ve gained quite a lot of male readers too), and I have to admit that at first I kind of thought ‘well isn’t it obvious? Then I realised that firstly we aren’t all socially savvy and secondly even when we are, we can be naive as well, including us women who are meant to be much more capable of understanding these sorts of things.7) Discussing partners: You might think that this means that the friendship is safe, because you are clearly pointing out the fact that you are taken. If they don’t know your partner and you haven’t or wouldn’t introduce them, then you need to think twice about the friendship.Plus, if you are discussing things about your relationship with this friend and not your partner, then it is definitely going in the wrong direction. If you are talking to someone of the opposite sex, they might be sympathetic to you because you are friends, but they should also be giving you an insight into the mind of your partner.For example, if you are in touch with them more than your own partner, then that’s definitely not a good sign.6) Degree of innuendo: It’s often considered quite normal for their to be innuendo within the office or social situations, and peer pressure can mean that people ignore what may be crossing the line, so I refer you back to the ‘shoe on the other foot’ rule!If they are slagging off your partner, then this friendship is definitely detrimental to your relationship.9) You/They are not happy in your relationship: If there are already problems in yours/their relationships already, then be really careful.
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This friendship could be really helpful and give you insight into the other side of the story, or it could be with someone who will eventually take advantage of the problems.
10) Excitement about talking to them: Now we get to the more obvious signs, which are when you miss talking to someone or look forward to talking to them.
Plus, women have rules of engagement that we understand, like lionesses marking our territories, however men probably don’t notice these subtleties at all.
The question I got was: ‘I keep having friendships with women that seem to cross some kind of invisible line that my wife can see, but I don’t see.