Take the time to explain how his behavior made you feel, and most importantly tell him EXACTLY what you want him to do differently.Try to do so calmly, and at a time that both of you agree is appropriate to discuss the concern.Much to our surprise, this was not the end of the season: Em laid an egg late on April 20 and the eagles began the ritual of incubating for a few hours and then exchanging places.Based on Em's behaviour on the nest, we believe she laid a second egg late on April 23, 72 hours after the first one. This would be Day 38 for the first egg and Day 35 for the second egg.The Hornby Island ground crew continue to monitor the nest and post videos and photographs of the Hornby Eagles in our forum (Our Nature Zone).September 8, 2017 The late Spring and Summer at the Hornby Eagle nest were full of roller-coaster moments.What advice would you have for a couple that is experiencing marital problems due to the fact that one partner’s brain is wired differently? "I need you to take out the trash because I'm cooking dinner." "It upsets me when you ignore me for video games because it makes me feel like you'd rather play games than be married to me. There's a quiz you can both take that will tell you your love language, which was crazy eye-opening for me and my husband.• Anonymous said... Read everything about it, have someone to talk to, have your OWN free time and try to be as rational as you can when you talk to him which you have to do when you know he is in the "listening mode". One thing that helps me is to write my thoughts and feelings down, then have him read them.
BOTH people in the relationship need to be willing to understand and adapt to each other's outlook.• Anonymous said… It also means being willings to understand what each person needs. This is not about right or wrong...differences ...what you can live with and what you can't.• Anonymous said… I must say this has been the biggest challenge in my entire life. This gives me time to calm down and think about how I want to say something.Although I do love my husband dearly, I am finding myself slipping into feelings of resentment quite often. Also, you need to give logistical reasons for things, at least I do.Once I learned to take a step back, breathe, and think of a reasonable argument in a calm, low tone, things got SO much better. I'll talk from your hubsnd's perspective, if you'll permit.Although a person with AS can tell they've angered or disappointed you, they rarely understand why.My partner has aspergers and honestly its not much of a relationship. You must reboot or start again a service (not the ntp service). If some script accidentally over writes your /etc/localtime file, then it overwrites your Pacific timezone file... Just copy the Pacific file over the localtime file with the command above. (Tested on Ubuntu 15.10 the change is taken into account instantly) cp -p /usr/share/zoneinfo/US/Pacific /etc/localtime I recommend AGAINST linking like mentioned by others.The Hornby Eagle Group (HEG) formed in 2009 to continue broadcasting the Hornby Eagles webcam, which was first streamed in 2006.Women who understand what it's like to be married to someone with Aspergers - no one else can even begin to understand the challenge. She is trying to understand and reach out for help. There were some arguments that I now understand were down to mutual misunderstanding from our brains being "wired differently" .Many of the people at the adult Asperger's support groups I go to comment that their diagnosis made their marriages to their NT partner much happier. It points out that both people in the relationship need to work at understanding the other. Or times when we both felt a little unloved or uncared for because we didn't recognise the way the other was expressing their love.